Hi, and thanks for clicking on me and I havent had too much luck with this on line thing, but how else do you meet people. I am sort of like the girl next door with a wild side. I like to have a good time and I am one of those optomistic people who always see the glass as half full or empty sometimes both, I just quit smoking, and I know I miss it a little, but I also know it is what I had to do, so it is important to me that I dont meet smokers at this stage but I trust myself enough in almost any circumstance to refrain from smoking, but dont need any temptation and as they say, us ex smokers can be the worst at not liking the smell of it so my goals for the near future include to excercise more and to take horse back riding lessons because I already know how to ride, but havent in years and would like a refresher, so I think I would have to say that horses are one of my all time favorite things so if you own two or three horses you might be my type. Other than being an honest horses owner, well I dont have a “Type”. So I will explain what I have learned in the last year of dating that is important to me, I am not looking for a soul mate or my other half I am whole as I am and love my current lifestyle so I am simply looking for aomeone to add to my already great life and I dont think this is the place to meet a soulmate, but I would like to find someone who isnt afraid of women because I have scared off so many and what we may do and you also cant be afraid of labels. Too many guys freak if they feel some woman wants to spend time with them, I am all about dating and see where it goes. No pressure. If we like each other, we hang out. If not we part. But if I am seeing someone, they are the only one I see so that complications dont arise as I would hate to get pregnant and not know whose kid it is again, I need more than a phone call or one visit a week. If I dont have my kids, I would prefer not to sit home alone but I dont need some guy to support me or shower me with gifts or compliments but I wouldn’t turn them down except for maybe on a first date when they show up with stuff the first time you meet it really is all about sex and then they expect you to thank them and I have a problem saying no and then I hate myself because they never call back. All I require is time. Age is a major factor. For personal reasons I would prefer a man up to 7 years older or up to 2 years younger. Any older than 42 or younger than 33 will not recieve an email back simply for not reading my profile so it is one thing I am strict about. Also, obviously, I would have to be physically attracted to someone. We all click on a profile because we find an attraction and then we read about them so please have a pic uploaded if you want to contact me. I have, in the past, prefered taller men like 6 feet or taller, however I am not married to that preference. I know if you are very tall and I am only 5 feet, we may look silly together, but I think for me, I find the hight difference to be comforting, like a form of protection I guess and the sex might be easier although I never thought about it that way before just now. I am a strog woman who fights for the rights in Victims and because of my position for the non profit, I have been given a sort of power with top state lawmakers. However, I will still have my moments where it would be nice to come home and cry to a significant other and he doesnt even have to really listen…just hold me and at least let me calm down before he insists on doing it because I need to feel that emotional safety that I can tell him anything and he will just wrap his arms around me and I will feel the load lifted and his too. I can say with certainty that I am strong, but I do have moments of weekness and I must be allowed to lean on someone I am with for support since it is my vulnerability and I never had that safety in my marriage so this is one very important quality for someone to possess and so I would also like to not ever guess where I stand with someone. You might know this but this on line dating thing has proven that there are alot of game players out there, and I dont play games nor would I like them played on me maybe just be real, be yourself, and have a personality and we should get along fine, so if you are interested, hit me up and lets start chatting. If not, good luck in your search.
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